The Pull of a Favor

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People often feel an urge to return a favor. When someone gives us something, even something small and unrequested, a quiet pressure builds to give something back. This expectation of reciprocity can support cooperation and sharing. Its strength depends on the relationship and situation.

Because the urge can be strong, it can be used as a tool of persuasion. A free sample, an unexpected gift, a small concession in an argument: each can plant a sense of debt that makes us more willing to say yes afterward. The favor need not be large, and we need not even have wanted it. The discomfort of feeling indebted can influence a later decision.

Noticing the pressure gives you a chance to reconsider. If a gift accompanies a sales request, separate the two decisions. A free sample does not require you to buy something. You can thank the giver and decide whether the purchase itself suits your needs.

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    What defense against this tactic does the passage suggest?

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    According to the passage, must a favor be large to create a sense of debt?

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    In this passage, "indebted" most nearly means:

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